Today, October 15th, homes across Australia and around the world will soften their lights in solemn, tender remembrance.
At 7:00 PM local time, flames will be struck for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. As 7:00 PM passes through each time zone, an unbroken ribbon of flame encircles the globe: the sacred, annual Wave of Light.
For parents and families navigating the quiet grief of miscarriage, stillbirth, or neonatal loss, this evening is an enduring declaration: your baby was here, your baby is deeply loved, and their light will never go out.
What Is the Global Wave of Light?
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day was established in the early 2000s to break the silence surrounding early loss, offering validation, tenderness, and an open space to mourn without isolation.
The day culminates in the Wave of Light:
When: Annually on October 15 at 7:00 PM local time.
The Ritual: Families light a candle and let it burn for at least one hour.
The Meaning: As time zones transition, the flicker of light travels from country to country, creating a continuous 24-hour wave of warmth and love for every baby gone too soon.
Whether this is your very first year participating or part of an ongoing ritual of remembrance, having a dedicated memorial candle creates a physical anchor for your love.
A Tangible Light in the Darkness: Rapt In Memories Memorial Candles
At Rapt In Memories, we believe that every life—no matter how brief—deserves to be honoured with deep reverence and beauty.
Our Personalised Pregnancy and Infant Loss Memorial Candles (part of our signature Rapt In Light collection) are handcrafted in Australia specifically to honour your precious angel.
Thoughtful, Reassuring Details
The Awareness Ribbon: Features the official pink and blue pregnancy and infant loss awareness ribbon set against a gentle, tranquil sky.
Timeless Sentiment: Beautifully inscribed with the comforting words:
“The Smallest Feet Leave The Biggest Footprints On Our Hearts.”
Protective Natural Timber Lid: Designed to keep your candle pristine and dust-free when not in use.
Warm, Gentle Fragrance: Hand-poured with our signature Buttercream Vanilla aroma—a tender blend of smooth musk, rich vanilla, warm butter, and sweet caramel. It offers a calm, reassuring ambiance without being overpowering.
Creating a Unique Keepsake for Your Angel
Grief and love are deeply personal. We work closely with families to turn each candle into an irreplaceable tribute:
1. Custom Names & Dates: Personalise your candle with your baby’s name, birth date, memorial date, or a custom prayer or poem.
2. Ultrasound & Photo Integration: We seamlessly blend your baby’s ultrasound scans, precious footprint images, or treasured family photographs directly into the high-definition photo wrap.
3. Digital Proofs Before Creation: You review and approve a digital proof beforehand, ensuring every detail is exact before we handcraft and carefully ship your candle anywhere across Australia.
How to Create a Meaningful Remembrance Space Tomorrow
If you are gathering tomorrow evening for the Wave of Light, here are a few gentle ways to mark the moment:
Create an Altar of Love: Place your memorial candle alongside sonograms, hospital memory boxes, baby blankets, or fresh flowers.
Light at 7:00 PM: Light your candle as the clock strikes 7:00 PM and sit with your thoughts, speak your baby’s name aloud, or simply sit in quiet reflection.
Leave it Burning for One Hour: Let the flame flicker for at least 60 minutes to remain joined in unity with families across your time zone.
Share the Light: Take a photo of your candle’s flame and share it using the hashtag #WaveOfLight, helping to break the silence and let other bereaved parents know they are not alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
What fragrance is used in the infant loss memorial candles?
Each candle is scented with our signature Buttercream Vanilla—a calming, comforting aroma combining smooth musk, warm butter, rich vanilla, and a touch of caramel to evoke the feeling of home and warmth.
Can these memorial candles hold ashes?
No. These candles are poured with solid soy wax and are designed for burning and visual remembrance. If you are looking for a dedicated keepsake to safely hold a portion of cremated remains, explore our custom Personalised Urn Collection.
Can I include an ultrasound picture on the candle wrap?
Yes. We specialise in custom photo integration. You can supply an ultrasound image, photograph, or footprint print, and we will seamlessly weave it into the wrap alongside the pink and blue awareness ribbon design.
How quickly are memorial orders prepared?
Once your digital proof is approved, our team handcrafts your custom candle with precision and care, preparing it immediately for secure delivery throughout Australia.
You Are Never Alone
To all the mothers, fathers, grandparents, and siblings holding love in their hearts for an angel in the sky: tomorrow night, we light our candles with you.
To create a custom memorial candle for your angel or send a thoughtful bereavement gift to a grieving family, visit Rapt In Memories.
